Religion
The most basic and fundamental attribute of a Muslim
marriage is the frequent religion that binds the bunch. Since Islam is a method
of life instead of only a religion restricted to weekly worship it will become
an essential part of a Muslim's life. The framework of reference shared by the
bunch facilitates sharing and communication of values. Faith plays a
significant part in creating a loving relationship. So if we love each other
for the sake of Allah we really increase our religion.
Forgiving
Among the main components of a happy marriage is The spouses
have the ability to forgive, that they don't hold grudges or behave straight
towards each other. It's anticipated that if we live with somebody, situations
can arise when we wind up doing or saying things which hurt our partners. The
challenge isn't to live on it or put blame but to go it outside. This can only
occur if we aren't too proud to request forgiveness and we aren't Agree to
forgive. Should we expect Allah to forgive us then we have to learn how to
forgive.
Forget
When we always remind our partners of All of the times they
Let's down or hurt us we haven't truly forgiven. Things that happened in the
past has to be left there and never be applied as fresh ammunition in new
scenarios. Couples using this technique generally fall into a rut and become
victims of their own pettiness, not able to break loose.
Forbearance
Sabr (patience) is your most valuable tool to Get In
handling a wholesome way of life. Being patient and forbearing sets us at a
pro-active frame of mind it brings us nearer to Allah via Tawakkul (trust) and
dependence . We create an inner mechanism which enables us to manage life's
challenging moments.
Adaptive
Many couples un-necessarily make themselves unhappy As they
are reluctant to flex a bit. We shouldn't expect our partners to be our
extensions. They're their own selves with characters, likes and dislikes. We
have to respect their right to be themselves provided that it doesn't undermine
their Deen (faith). Being rigid and not adapting for individual differences
contributes to a very stressful and stressed home setting.
Friendship
This facet of union contains three parts:
First would be to create a friendship with our partners. The
relationship based on friendship is much more able to withstand external
pressures. We honor, confidence, respect, accept and care for our friends,
regardless of our differences. These are the facets of friendship we ought to
bring to our unions.
Secondly Part of friendship is to have favorable Connections
with in-laws. When couples vie as to whose parents are more significant it will
become a constant source of despair. Much precious time is wasted trying to
convince, one another of whose parents would be most desired. It's advisable when
we take, that our partners won't instantly fall in love with our parents simply
because we need them to. So long as they keep friendly relationships which are
cordial and based on mutual respect we shouldn't force the matter.
The next Part of friendship is that our circle of friends.
It's fine to have individual friends of the identical sex but couples should
also attempt to have family members that they can interact together. When
there's friction being due to a specific friendship it shouldn't be pursued at
the cost of the union. Prophet Muhammad advised us to pick God fearing
individuals as friends because we have a tendency to follow along their way.
Friends ought to be a source of pleasure rather than mischief.
Interesting
Couples That Don't laugh collectively Need to Work on
Sharing some interesting times. The Prophet (peace be upon him) has been known
to play with His wives. An easy walk in the park may add much spark into your
relationship. Taking up a game together or viewing blank funny movies is just
another way of Sharing a laugh.
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